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Funfetti is trying to defy the evils of writer's block one project at a time.

Red Velvet is a quirky little cupcake trying to channel her inner writer.

Sleeping to Dream: Week #4

Funfetti: 

I think my dreams may be sabotaging me this week. After a month of recording them, I can barely remember one (which is sad, because I really loved working on this series). Don’t worry I came up with a plan.

Dream #1: I am in some kind of hall with long tables. It looks like I am about to graduate high school (again? Who wants to relive that?!). I guess this hall is connected to a hotel because I go up to shower and when I return, everyone have received their final grades and also their “achievements”. It seems that my best friend has gotten one and I haven’t, and I’m a bit peeved. I’m also sitting at a table with a bunch of people I have not thought of/”seen” on Facebook at all.

No idea what to take from this one. It seems like if I’m not dreaming about celebrities lately, it’s people I thought I have forgotten (except my best friend, of course). Back in the day, I was so excited to graduate high school and move on to college, and from what I could gather, I felt the same way here. (Why is everything so rustic & wooden in my dreams?)

Now because I can’t remember anything else from this week, or the past month, I’d thought I’d mention 2 recurring dreams I’ve had since I was young.

  • People move into my childhood home, and my family is still living in there. They are actually in the backyard, doing landscaping and I am watching from the family room. I’m confused and not sure how this happened. When the man who bought the house approaches me, he is not welcoming. I have no idea where to go or who to talk to.
  • All of my sudden my childhood home has another floor. I am scared of that floor and want absolutely nothing to do with it. But on a few occasions, I find myself up there. Scared out of my wits. It’s very elegantly decorated, densely with Victorian like furniture. There is a coffin in the middle of the room. And there are times I come in contact with “the man” who lives up there, and looks slightly like a vampire.

Clearly, these 2 must have rattled me a lot since I had them a lot. In fact, I know I had the vampire one about a year ago. So that’s been going on for awhile, except that time Mr. FF was in the dream somehow.

 
Red Velvet:  
 
Dream #1: I see my ipod touch turn on with a message saying my dresses on Fashion Story (a game) are ready.  But when I check my clothes, I see that all of them are expired and can’t be used.  Then I wake up.  
 
Nothing too exciting.  But I did have this dream twice, so a part of me wonders if maybe I did wake up in the middle of the night to check and I just think it’s a dream.  I’ve been a little obsessed with this game (and Baking Story) lately so it’s definitely a possibility.  
 
Dream #2: I’m in the lobby of my office building waiting for the elevator but when the doors open, I don’t see the elevator at all.  Instead I see the subway stop on 23rd St., so I don’t get out and wait for the next one.  But it keeps happening, the doors open and I see 28th St., 34th St. and finally 42nd St. (which is my usual stop) so I decide to take a chance and get out.  I get onto the subway, which then drops me off inside the basement of my house.  End of the commute! And then end of dream.  
 
I dream a lot about work (sadly) so the setting wasn’t too surprising.  But I have to say, this was pretty imaginative.  I don’t know how my self-conscious came up with it! Also, at least one of our three elevators have been broken for the last month (just yesterday I accidentally got on the “out of order” one) which could be another reason why I was thinking about this.  If only one of them were magical enough to drop me off directly at Port Authority - I’d enjoy my commute a lot more.


Friendly Lessons

By: Red Velvet

I’ve been reading a lot of blogs lately about the importance (and awesomeness) of having a group of best friends.  I’ve written about the same thing myself  on here and how grateful I am to have the ones I currently do.  But it got me thinking about my high school days and all the “bad” friends I had to go through before finding people I really connected with.  It even crossed my mind while out to dinner with my best friends last week.  It’s funny to think but I probably wouldn’t have these girls in my life if it weren’t for those awful experiences.  They taught me a lot about myself and who I should consider a friend, much less a “best friend”.  
 
My first experience with a friendship ending wasn’t about me so much.  It was about two girls I had also gone to grammar school with and for reasons I don’t even remember, one person didn’t like the other anymore.  I, being in the middle, had to choose a side.  So I did… and I’m still friends with that person to this day.  I can’t say I regret the choice, all things considered, but it probably could’ve been (and should’ve been) handled a lot differently.  

Lesson learned:  While it all worked out, real friends wouldn’t make you choose between them.

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Guest Post Galore

Because we so love the gals who have written blogs on Couple of Crumbs, we wanted to feature them today just in case you’ve missed them! While these ladies are all so wonderfully different, they are also also honest, thorough, and talented writers. (As well as strong women!) We hope you enjoy their thoughts and styles as much as we do!

S’more is a chocolate loving cupcake who dreams of becoming a high school English teacher. She’ll read anything with a YA (Young Adult) stamp on it and loves everything having to do with Disney. She sometimes finds it hard to balance her adult life with her adolescent interests, but prefers to swing it as merely being “young at heart.”

Lemon Drop is the kind of cupcake who “feels it all,” as the artist Feist would say. Whether its a tv show, song, or a beautiful piece of writing, she loves seeing true honesty in all forms. She is married to her best friend and has a fun, yet stubborn little girl. She has taken the opportunity to stay at home with her daughter, which requires her to find a balance between personal time and her responsibilities around her home. She has a passion for cooking with natural, whole foods and dreams of one day opening a whole food cafe where she can share her joy of being healthy and happy.

Maple Bacon is a 20-something New Jerseyan dropped awkwardly in Indianapolis. She’s crazy about pugs, her chef husband, and all things inappropriate. When Maple Bacon isn’t consuming delicious cupcakes, she can be found blogging as kjpugs at Ordinary in Indiana.

Guest Post: Cupcake Capers

Introducing our newest guest blogger, Maple Bacon!

Maple Bacon is a 20-something New Jerseyan dropped awkwardly in Indianapolis. She’s crazy about pugs, her chef husband, and all things inappropriate. When Maple Bacon isn’t consuming delicious cupcakes, she can be found blogging as kjpugs at Ordinary in Indiana.

Cupcakes are important to me. Because they’re delicious. And pretty. And individually portioned. But also, because they funded my prom dress and nearly got me in big trouble. Oh don’t worry - there’s a story.

A few months before high school graduation, I had saved up for my prom and graduation expenses, quit my after-school job, and was living the life. I had budgeted $150 for a prom dress, but was sure I’d find something less expensive. Then I made the mistake of stepping foot in a Jessica McClintock shop. Oh dear. I was shopping with my prom date - a fun and fashionable gay man that I sang in show choir with - and we happened upon a gorgeously poofy dress. Drop waist, rhinestone accents, and tulle skirt. The sample was only in white but they had the most gorgeous color also available to order- yellow. Belle from Beauty and the Beast yellow. As I tried on the white sample, a lady asked us if we were going to prom or getting married. Squeeee! I knew I needed the dress. Only problem? It was $261. For as long as I live, I’ll remember that number!

Afterwards, I showed my dad the dress online, and asked him to buy it for me. He said he would and I squealed. But finished his sentence with “as long as you get it in white so you can wear it for your wedding, and I never have to buy you another dress again.”

Yea, my parents weren’t paying for a cent of it.

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(A Friendship) Through the Years

By: Red Velvet

It seems like every time I log onto Facebook these days, someone new is announcing their engagement or unveiling their “married” status.  I’m nowhere near that point but I do like to think about it.  What my wedding would be like, my dream dress, who’s going to be in my bridal party.  Especially the latter.  I remember growing up, knowing exactly who was going to be my Maid of Honor.  No question about it - it was going to be my oldest friend, who I’ve known since I was 7 years old.

Now?  My answer to that question is different.  Yes, she’s still my friend but the Maid of Honor is supposed to be the person that knows you best.  And when I hung out with her this past weekend for the first time in 3 months, it got me thinking about why she isn’t that person anymore.  

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